Category: human interest

  • April Fool Memories

    In Vermont you get a lot of snow – really a lot of snow!  But schools rarely close unless it's very bad – or unexpected – or both!

    For years prior to Vermont, my son and I played April Fool tricks on each other – usually along the line of trying to get the other to look at some imaginary object or some event that was not happening.

    On April 1 of his year in VT there was a 2-foot snow storm and school was canceled.  I knew he would not be happy if he got up and took a shower only to find out he could have slept in – so I woke him around 5:30 AM to tell him there was no school due to a snow storm.

    His reply was along the lines of "ha ha I know it's April Fool and I am not falling for that."  I suggested he look out the window but as that had been our usual "fool" he refused.  He got up and was heading for a shower and I tried most seriously to again tell him there was no school.

    I forget how I managed to convince him to look out a window – but he finally did. 

    His words were not appropriate for a family-friendly blog so I won't print them

    It was such a funny experience I recall it most every April 1 – and especially on days like today when my friends in New England tell me they got hit with another April Fool snow storm!

    Happy April Fool

    P.S. The story is true and neither my son nor I live in New England anymore….

    What's your favorite April Fool memory? Let us know below in the comments…thanks

  • That’s what friends are for!

    grow older better kittens share

     

    The bed these two are in is a one cat bed…and they both easily fit into it when they were  were adopted at 2 and 3 months of age. 

     

    grow older better kittens

     

     

    But now they are 5 and 6 months old and like people, they have grown but the bed has not….

    Yet when the wind is howling and the house is moving – they both hop into it.

  • Depression and Pets [a cure?]

    cats in a bath tub

    Some of you know that I lost both of my pets last Fall – one died of old age and the other tragically.  I was a mess and I was depressed….for a long time…

    When I was ready – I adopted two kittens – thinking that two would not make me the source of all fun ;) and yup that was the correct thing to do.

    The female kitten [Sassy black ]was about 3 1/2 months and the male [Smokie gray] about 2 1/2 months when I adopted them in late December.

    After getting over being sick and then getting adjusted to a  new place they have taken over my house! 

    Including the bath tub

    And I am not depressed!!

     

    cross posted from http://graywolfproductions.com

  • Boomers and later-borns – a warning!

    I've written about the economy and seniors before – but it is a message that needs to be repeated – so here it is again!

    YOU SHOULD NOT BE DEPENDENT ON SOCIAL SECURITY

    Social Security will post nearly $600 billion in deficits over the next decade as the economy struggles to recover and millions of baby boomers stand at the brink of retirement, according to new congressional projections.

    Read more about these social security deficits.

    No matter how old you are now – and even if you've been collecting social security for a while – you really need to have other sources or additional streams of income…

    You'll feel safer and you'll be happier!

    Comments?  thank you

     

  • On birthdays, social media and friends

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    NYC girl scouts circa early 1950's – some of whom I am still in contact with

     

    Yesterday was my birthday…

    Starting over the weekend, many friends on Facebook wished me a happy birthday. 

    [FYI – Facebook posts the date of your birth if you want it to show.  Twitter and other sites do not.]

    Some of those on Facebook I have met in real life [or IRL as we say] – but most I have never met – or rather – I should say have not yet met.  I am sure I will meet many in the future as we have a lot in common.

    Some of my non-social media friends wonder why I call my online friends – friends!  Well to me they are friends.

    They were there for me in my depression when my pets died and in my joy when I announced that my son was getting married. 

    They are ardent supporters of my writing and my thoughts about politics and life – and they sometimes enjoy my videos and photographs [and even my knitting projects ]

    So – what is a friend?

    I have friends I see every day, I have friends from years ago that I stay in contact with via phone and visits, and some with whom I am in contact only via email or online.  And of course, my online-only friends.

    Is there a difference in these friends?  Yes.  For those from the far ago pasts, and even my not-so-far-ago pasts – we may have different points of view and events on life now – but we once shared a history and that can't be discarded. 

    Those histories forge a bond of friendship.  And the social media friends? We are creating our own history and forging a different kind of friendship…

    But to me – they are all friends!

     

    Comments? Thank you!